Kyle Abellar

5 Things I Wish I Knew Before Going Viral

I still remember the first time one of my TikToks blew up. I was watching the view counter climb past a hundred thousand, then half a million, and eventually past two million combined views. I just sat there staring at my phone thinking “is this actually happening right now?”

Going viral was incredible. But it also taught me some things the hard way that I wish someone had told me beforehand. So if you’re a creator hoping to have that breakout moment, here are five things I’d want you to know first.

Kyle Abellar lifestyle content between viral moments
The real growth happens between the viral moments

1. Viral Views Don’t Automatically Mean Loyal Followers

This was the biggest shock. After my video blew up, I gained a ton of followers overnight. But most of those people followed me because of one specific video. They didn’t necessarily care about me as a person or want to see my other content. A lot of them never engaged with another post again.

I learned that there’s a huge difference between someone who watches a viral video and someone who actually follows you because they connect with who you are. The second kind of follower is way more valuable, and you build that audience through consistency. My creator journey from Toms River to TikTok taught me that lesson early.

2. The Algorithm Doesn’t Owe You Anything

After going viral, I expected my next few videos to do well too. They didn’t. Some of them barely cracked a few hundred views. I was confused and honestly kind of frustrated. But that’s when I realized the algorithm doesn’t care about what you did yesterday. Every video starts from zero, and the platform decides in real time whether to push it.

This is actually a good thing once you accept it. It means every creator, whether you have 100 followers or 100,000, has a shot every time they post. But it also means you can never coast on past success.

3. People Will Have Opinions (and That’s Okay)

When a video goes viral, it reaches way beyond your usual audience. That means people who don’t know you, don’t follow you, and don’t care about your feelings will suddenly be in your comments section. Some of it is positive. Some of it is not.

Early on, the negative comments got to me more than I’d like to admit. But over time, I learned to separate constructive feedback from random internet noise. If someone has a real point, I listen. If they’re just being negative for the sake of it, I keep scrolling. You have to develop thick skin in this game, and going viral speeds up that learning curve real fast.

4. You Need Something Behind the Virality

Going viral is like a spotlight suddenly hitting you. And when that spotlight turns on, people are going to look around to see what else you’ve got. If all they find is one good video and nothing else, they move on immediately.

That’s why I’m so glad I had other things going on when my content started blowing up. I had Perez Polishing, I was playing varsity sports at Bishop Verot, and I was active across multiple social platforms. Having depth behind your viral moment is what turns a one-time viewer into a long-term fan. Start building that depth now, before you need it.

Kyle Abellar with friends creating content together
The best content comes from just being yourself with the people you care about

5. Staying Relevant Matters More Than Going Viral Once

The most important lesson: virality is a moment, but relevance is a lifestyle. I’ve seen so many creators have one huge video and then disappear because they spent all their energy trying to recreate that exact same moment instead of evolving.

After my video blew up, I made a conscious decision to focus on building something sustainable rather than chasing the next viral hit. That meant getting better at storytelling, diversifying my platforms, building this website, and thinking about my brand long-term. I eventually learned that digital authority is what separates creators who last from those who fade.

If you’re chasing virality right now, I get it. That rush is addicting. But trust me, what matters more is what you build around it. The viral moment opens the door. What you’ve built is what makes people stay.

Have you ever had a video blow up unexpectedly? I’d love to hear what you learned from it.

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